INTRODUCTION
A quarter century ago, attention to
the issue of sexual encounters between adults and minors increased
markedly in the United States (Jenkins, 1998). This increased attention
was an outgrowth of initiatives taken by the women's movement, which
first focused on the problem of rape and shortly thereafter the problem
of incest (Finkelhor, 1984). Rape served as a model for understanding
father-daughter incest (Okami, 1990), and incest in turn quickly became
the dominant model for understanding sexual encounters in general
between men and girls , (Finkelhor, 1984). Based on the rape and incest
models, these encounters came to be seen as a form of power abuse and
violence that exploited unwilling and powerless victims, inflicting
lasting psychological trauma in the process (Okami, 1990). The
burgeoning child abuse profession, given a major boost in 1974 by
passage of the Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act, rapidly spread
this view, across society, where it has remained well-entrenched ever
since (Gardner, 1993; Jenkins 1998)
As chi1d abuse researchers expanded
their domain of inquiry in the early 1980s, research began to include
sexual encounters between men and boys, and eventually between women and
boys (West, 1998). The incest model also strongly influenced how
researchers, other professionals, and the lay public attempted to
understand these encounters, inc1uding those between adolescent boys and
unrelated adu1ts (Jenkins, 1998; Rind, 1998). For example, Masters et
al. (1985) rejected the findings of Sandfort (1983) who concluded
that a mostly adolescent sample of Dutch boys experienced their sexual
relationships with men predominantly positively. They argued, consistent
with the incest model, that these relationships were inherently abusive
and exploitative and therefore necessarily negative, regardless of
contrary claims by the boys themselves. In rejecting the boys' reports
of positive reactions, Masters et al. speculated that they made
them up because they were intimidated by the men. Similarly, the media
have frequently also exhibited the influence of the incest model. In one
typical example, an editorial in a major U.S. newspaper asserted that
sexual encounters between adolescent boys and men are "profoundly
damaging," because they "invariably involve the imposition of
power and exploitation, in the most fearfully private of all ways ...
[which leaves] emotional scars, distrusts, [and] self-contempt that last
through lifetimes". (Philadelphia Inquirer, 1984, p. 22A).
Recent reviews of the nonclinical
literature suggest that the incest model, along with its assumptions of
intimidation, violence, and pathogenicity, is not valid for boys in the
general population who participate willingly in sexual relations with
adults -- "willing" indicates simple as opposed to informed
consent (see Rind et al. , 2000, for a complete discussion). Bauserman
and Rind (1997), in a review of the nonclinical literature on boy-adult
sex, found that willing relations were associated with neutral or
positive reactions. Rind et al. (1998), in their meta-analytic
review of college samples, found that boy-adult sex was not associated
with symptoms when the boys were willing participants. In these samples,
most boys with experiences labeled child sexual abuse reacted positively
or neutrally (66% ), whereas most girls reacted negatively (72%). These
gender differences, which appeared to an equal degree in the national
probability samples meta-analytically reviewed by Rind and Tromovitch
(1997), imply that it is generally not valid to extrapolate from girls'
experiences, especially father-daughter incest, to those of boys.
Nonclinical studies reporting data on
woman-boy sex (e.g., Condy et al., 1987; Promuth and Hurkhart,
1987; West and Woodhouse, 1993; Woods and Dean, 1984) have generally
found that boys react predominantly positively to these encounters,
especially if they are adolescents at the time. Presumably, most of the
boys in these studies were heterosexual, given the predominance of
heterosexuality in the general population. It follows that, if
adolescent heterosexual boys respond predominantly positively to sexual
relations with older females, then adolescent gay or bisexual boys may
respond similarly to such relations with older males. This inference
differs markedly from expectations that follow from the incest model. It
was the purpose of this study to examine these competing predictions.
Background: Research on Gay and
Bisexual Boy-Man Sex
Relatively little research has
directly examined age-discrepant sexual experiences of gay or bisexual
boys (Doll et al. , 1992). A brief review of research that has
been done is presented next. Clinical, clinic-based, nonclinical, and
cross-cultural data are examined.
Myers (1989) reported on 14 men
(eight of whom were gay) from his clinical practice who experienced
sexual abuse as adults or boys. Half the gay patients as boys had sexual
contacts with men. One, at age 11, was abused on a camping trip by his
teacher, who attempted fellatio and sodomy. He felt "dirty"
from the experience and felt "frozen and scared stiff" for
several weeks, reacting with hyperalertness and insomnia. Another
reported that, at age 13, he was raped repeatedly for hours by two men
after he was drugged, gagged, and tied down by all four extremities. For
the next half year, he had flashbacks of the rapes and nightmares of
suffocation and death. Both of these patients currently suffered from
depression. Half the gay patients were intensely homophobic. Dimock
(1988) reported on 25 patients who experienced overt sexual contact as
boys that they felt powerless to resist and that they or he believed had
produced harmful results. He found that 64% of his sample, including
both homosexual and heterosexual patients, exhibited some confusion
about their sexual preference.
Doll et al. (1992) examined
1,001 homosexual or bisexual men attending sexually transmitted disease
clinics. Thirty five percent were encouraged or forced by an older or
more powerful male to have sex before age 19 (their median age was 10;
their partners' was 21). Reactions at the time were 27% positive, 15%
neutral, and 58% negative. Half the episodes involved some form of
force, and 43% were incestuous. Force was the strongest predictor of
negative reactions. Positive reactions were associated with lengthier
relationships. Bartholow et al. (1994), using the same data set,
reported that this early sex was associated with more mental health
counseling/hospitalization and drug abuse, less social support, and an
altered process of sexual identity development (e.g. , less comfort
regarding sexual attractions). These associations, however, were all
small.
Many other researchers have also
expressed concern that man-boy sex may interfere with sexual
development. Finkelhor (1984) reported that college males who had sex as
boys with older males were four times more likely to be currently
engaging in homosexual activity. He attributed this to a stigma effect,
in which boys with such experiences label themselves homosexual and
thereby become one. Various researchers have used this result along with
others (e.g., Johnson and Shrier, 1985) to argue that homosexuality is
an adverse outcome of man-boy sex (e.g., Mendel, 1995; Urquiza and
Capra, 1990). "Seduction" as an important contributor to
homosexual development is a staple of some schools of psychoanalytic
thought, reflected in the opinion expressed by the National Association
for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), an organization of
Psychoanalysts and psychoanalytically oriented psychologists committed
to treating, curing, and preventing homosexuality ( http://www.narth.com
).
In contrast to clinical or
clinic-based studies, a number of studies based on convenience samples
consisting of gay or bisexual men obtained through advertisements placed
in gay magazines, bars, bookstores, or conferences have frequently
yielded a predominantly positive profile of gay and bisexual boys'
sexual experiences with men (e.g., Fellows, 1996; Hart, 1995; Jay and
Young, 1977; Spada, 1979). They also have generally pointed out the
commonness of early sexual attractions to and desires for older
adolescent and adult males. For example, Spada (1979), who examined
1,038 male homosexuals aged 16-77 across the United States through mail
questionnaires, reported that
In the case of a respondent's first
youthful experience taking place with an adult, it is usually stressed
by the respondent that it was he who made the first advance, he who
desired and initiated the encounter, and that no coercion or seduction
by the adult took place. Several dozen did describe their first
experience as a seduction, but just three reported the use of force
(p. 30).
In an illustrative case of the
generally positive reactions reported, a respondent recalled that, when
he was 12, his scoutmaster fellated him. He commented, "1 liked it.
It felt good and I think it made us closer as friends and someone I
could turn to when I had problems." West and Woodhouse (1993),
based on a college sample, reported similar findings in terms of
homosexually oriented boys' initiation of and positive reactions to sex
with adult males.
Jay and Young (1977) obtained data
from 4,239 gay or bisexual male respondents aged 14-82. They found that
boyhood crushes and fantasies regarding older males were common. One
respondent, who looked at men's underwear models in catalogs when he was
9 or 10 years old, remembered that "[I] prayed very sincerely and
faithfully that God would put those men in a locked room that only I had
a key to, and would obey me like robots" (p. 83). Sexual
experiences with older males were often positive. One respondent
recalled that, at age 11, he was seduced by a man in his 20s living in
his house. He remembered that it "was a little shaky at first but
after it began I realized I liked it" (p. 90). Only a few
experiences involved force or violence. The authors provided a sampling
of 16 opinions to the , question "whether sexual contacts with
adults were helpful or not" (p. 97): most were positive (69%) or
neutral (12%).
In March 1999 the Rind et al. (1998)
meta-analysis came under intense attack by social conservatives (see Rind
et al., 2000, for details). The Philadelphia radio talk show host
who initiated the nationwide attacks pressured the Philadelphia gay and
lesbian bookstore to remove all materials on intergenerational sex
(e.g., books, newsletters). The owner yielded, but protested that
"I have thought it interesting, that so many gay men I know report
having had positive sexual experiences with adults when they were
boys" (Giovanni's Room press release, March 24, 1999).
Reacting to this comment and the
controversy surrounding the meta-analysis, two journalists for a
Phi1adelphia gay publication conducted interviews at various gay youth
centers with male teen volunteers who had had sexual re1ations with men
(Nickels and Hocker, 1999). Results supported the bookstore owner's
observation: most of the nine volunteers reacted positively and none
reacted negatively. Rejecting the notion that they had been abused, the
teens instead identified various psycho1ogical, emotional, and
educational benefits that the relationships conferred.
The research just reviewed has
focused on the age-discrepant sexua1 experiences of gay and bisexual
boys in a society that has traditionally condemned homosexuality and
currently anathematizes man-boy sex. It is thus instructive to examine
how homosexua1ly oriented boys in other cultures that do not share these
attitudes react to such experiences.
Williams (1996) has provided relevant
data based upon field research among Native Americans and Po1ynesians,
in which he interviewed "two-spirit" persons (i.e., Native
American berdaches and Polynesian mahus). Two-spirit men are differently
gendered and are accepted and appreciated in their societies for their
unique contributions. They are usually homosexually oriented and play
the passive role in sexual relations with masculine ma1es; these
relations are socially sanctioned and generally begin before puberty.
Wi1liams found that the vast majority of his interviewees expressed
pleasant memories of their boyhood sexual experiences with older males.
For example, one man had a re1ation with a 40-year-old man when he was
eight. He commented: "Since he was good to me and for me, it was
considered by my family to be okay and my own business-no one
else's" (p. 428). Williams came across only one interviewee who
felt traumatized by an age-discrepant experience, which involved being
raped by his alcoholic grandfather. He also found that
masculine-oriented males who had sexual relations with older males as
boys found them to be predominantly positive. He concluded that culture
is an important factor in determining how boys perceive these relations;
when it is accepting, these relations tend not to be problematic and may
even help a boy's maturation.
Current Study
The review of research on gay and
bisexual boys' sexual encounters with older males shows a wide range of
reactions. Clinical case studies, consistent with the incest model in
their findings, appear to be highly unrepresentative of this population.
Causal attributions regarding symptoms are problematic, because clinical
subjects often come from disorganized family environments -- Dimock
(1988) described all of his subjects as coming from chaotic homes.
The clinic-based research of
Bartholow el al. (1994) and Doll el al. (1992) was not
especially supportive of this model, because psychological correlates of
these sexual encounters were all small and comfort regarding sexual
attractions was high on average among subjects with these experiences (M
= 1.6, where 1 = very comfortable, 5 = very
uncomfortable), contrary to Bartholow el al.'s erroneous
description of "lack of comfort" (Bartho1ow el al., 1994,
p. 755). The generalizability of this sample is limited because men of
low socioeconomic status were over represented -- which could account
for the high percentage of force and incest cases relative to national
samples (cf: Rind el al., 1998). Its relevance to gay and
bisexual adolescent males is limited because most subjects in this study
had their sexual encounters with older males when they were
preadolescent. The nonclinical and cross-cultural data were completely
inconsistent with the incest model. An important shortcoming of this
research, however, is that no data based on standard measures of
Psychological adjustment were gathered.
The purpose of the current study was
to add to scientific knowledge in this area by presenting research that
avoided the shortcomings just discussed. A nonclinical, mostly middle
class sample of young adult gay and bisexual males was examined. Both
adjustment and reaction data were analyzed, as were data concerning
sexual orientation development. Consistent with the nonclinical and
cross-cultural research just reviewed, and contrary to predictions from
the incest model, it was expected that age-discrepant sexual relations
(ADSRs) between gay or bisexual males and adult men would be experienced
predominantly non negatively and would not be associated with adjustment
problems. Furthermore, contrary to psychoanalytic theorizing and
labeling theory, it was not expected that homosexual interests would be
the "adverse" outcome of ADSRs. In the current study, ADSR was
defined as a sexual encounter or relationship involving at least genital
contact between a gay or bisexual boy aged less than 18 with a man aged
at least 18 and at least 5 years older than the boy.
METHOD
Overview
This study drew its data from
research conducted by Savin-Williams (1997), a Cornell University
psychologist who interviewed two samples of young adult gay and bisexual
males to examine gay /bisexual identity development. Some of the data
were obtained directly from Savin- Williams; other data were obtained
from his 1997 report summarizing this research. Savin- Williams employed
an interpretive interview approach, in which he requested his subjects
to ground their memories in specific details during face-to-face
interviews and to tell "their own story" (p. 11). He argued,
citing supporting methodological research (Kessler and Wethington, 1991;
Ross, 1984), that this technique, along with the fact that subjects were
genera1ly only several years or months removed from important
developmental sexual experiences or milestones, added to the validity of
the results.
Savin-Williams' focus when examining
the first sample was exploring the role that sexual behavior during
childhood and adolescence plays in forming a gay or bisexual identity.
In accordance, he asked subjects about all sexual relations they had
prior to graduating from high school. Thus, it was possible to divide
this sample into a control and an ADSR group. For his second sample, his
goa1s changed in that sexua1 behavior per se was not a chief focus.
Accordingly, he asked these subjects only about their first sexua1
experience and their first romantic experience. As such, although Sample
2 can be divided into a control and an ADSR group, the control group
cannot be considered as pure in that it likely contained a small subset
of subjects who experienced ADSR.
In the current study, Sample 1,
because of its clear separation of control and ADSR subjects, was used
as the primary basis for assessing the relationship between ADSR and
psychological adjustment. As a secondary means of assessing this
relationship, Sample 2 was employed, with the caveat that interpretation
of its results must be seen as tentative because its control group
likely contained several ADSR subjects. ADSR subjects from both samples
were used to evaluate how gay/bisexual boys react to ADSRs.
Subjects
Subjects were recruited through
announcements made in appropriate classes at Cornell University and
other local colleges, posters and flyers put on campus bulletin boards
and distributed at relevant local establishments (e.g., local bar,
bookstore, cafe ), and advertisements placed in local gay newsletters
and Internet list-serves. Many subjects volunteered based on
word-of-mouth information from subjects who had already participated.
The study was described to prospective it subjects as an attempt to
understand the ways gay and bisexua1 men come to recognize their sexual
identity during childhood and adolescence.
Sample
1
The first sample consisted of 43 male
subjects, with a mean age of 21 (SD = 1.4) and a range from 17 yo 23.
Most of these subjects were white (91%). Their religions were (a) 27%
Protestant, (b) 22% Jewish, (c) 17% Catholic, and (d) 34% none. Only 16%
came from urban settings; 38% came from small cities, medium towns, or
suburbs; nearly half (47%) came from small towns, rural communities, or
farms. Subjects' mean Kinsey rating (on a scale from 0 to 6, where 6
indicates exclusively homosexual) was 5.49 (SD = .94): 70%
were exclusively homosexual, 16% were mainly homosexual with a small
degree of heterosexual interest, and the remaining 14% had substantial
interest in both sexes. Thirteen (30%) of the 43 subjects had ADSR
experiences, all of which occurred between ages 12 and 17.
Sample
2
The second sample consisted of 86
subjects, with a mean age of 21.3 (SD = 2.2) and a range from 17 to 25.
Most subjects were White (72%). Their religions were (a) 13% Protestant,
(b) 21% Jewish, (c) 24% Catholic, (d) 4% other, and (e) 37% none. Twenty
nine percent came from urban settings; 37% came from smal1 cities,
medium towns, or suburbs; 35% came from sma11 towns, rura1 communities,
or farms. Their mean Kinsey rating was 5.45 (SD = .90): 66% were
exclusively homosexual, 19% were mainly homosexual with a small degree
of heterosexual interest, and the remaining 13% had substantial interest
in both sexes. The only demographic variable that differed significantly
between samples 1 and 2 was ethnicity: the first sample was less
ethnically diverse, containing a greater proportion of wh1tes (91% )
than did the second sample (72%), X2 (1, N = 129) =
5.84, p < .02, effect size r = .21. Thirteen of 86
subjects were identified as having experienced ADSR, all of which
occurred between ages 12 and 17, as in Sample 1.
ADSR-Identified Sample
No statistically significant
differences emerged between ADSR and control subjects in their
demographics. The 26 ADSR-identified subjects from the two samples had a
mean age of 20.8 (SD = 2.6) and a range from 17 to 25. Most were White
(85% ); 8% were Black and 4% each were Latino and Asian. Fifteen percent
were Protestant, 19% Jewish, 27% Catholic, and 38% had no religious
affiliation. Almost a third each came from urban communities (31% ) or
small cities, medium towns, or suburbs (31%); 38% came from small towns,
rura1 communities, or farms. Their mean Kinsey rating was 5.46 (SD =
1.03), with 69% exclusively homosexual, 19% mainly homosexual with a
small degree of heterosexual interest, and 12% with substantia1 interest
in both sexes.
Measures and Procedure
In their study on the mental health
of lesbian, gay, and bisexual youths, Hershberger and D' Augelli (1995)
found that the single largest predictor of the youths' mental health was
self -acceptance, as measured by the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Inventory
(Rosenberg, 1965) and an item on comfort, which asked how comfortable
subjects currently felt about being gay or lesbian. Savin- Williams
(1997) also assessed self-esteem, using the Rosenberg scale; scores
could range from 0 to 30, where 30 indicated high self-esteem.
Additionally, Savin-Williams (1997) reported the age at which subjects
first developed a positive sexual identity. This construct is analogous
to Hershberger and D' Augelli's construct of comfort (Hershberger and D'
Augelli, 1995) in that it assesses self-acceptance; it fol1ows therefore
that it is an indicator of psychological adjustment. In the current
study, the self-esteem and positive sexual identity data obtained from
Savin- Wil1iams were used to assess the relationship between ADSRs and
adjustment.
Reaction data for ADSR subjects were
also ana1yzed. In conducting his interviews, Savin- Williams (1997) took
notes on subjects' feelings about their sexual experiences, including
the ADSR experiences. ADSR narratives were obtained for the current
study from Savin- Wil1iams as well as from his book. For each of the 26
narratives, one for each ADSR subject, the author of the current study
and two other sex researchers coded each subject's reaction to the ADSR
and his level of consent. Specifically, reactions were coded as fol1ows:
1 = very negative, 2 = negative, 3 = neutral or mixed, 4
= positive, and 5 = very positive.
Level of consent was coded as
fol1ows: 1 = forced (partner used threat or force to get subject
to participate); 2 = obligated (subject not forced, but subject
felt unable to say no); 3 = acquiesced (subject participated
without rea1 interest; he did it to accommodate partner); 4 = mutual (subject
wanted to do it, but didn't necessarily initiate it; it was two-way
mutual); 5 = encouraged (subject actively initiated and wanted
it).
Cronbach's alphas computed on the
coders' ratings indicated good inter-coder re1iability: alphas = .97 and
.87 for reactions and consent, respectively. Reaction and consent scores
for each subject were computed as the mean of the three coders'
corresponding ratings.
Additionally, the author and one
other rater coded several characteristics of the ADSRs. One was the
relationship between the boy and the man: 1 = stranger (ADSR on
first meeting); 2 = acquaintance (ADSR after first meeting, but
before becoming friends ); 3 = friend. Another was frequency of
sexual contact: 1 = once only; 2 = more than once. A third
was duration: 1 = less than a month; 2 = 1-6 months; 3 = 6
months to one year; 4 = more than 1 year. A fourth
was type of sex (coded as the most intensive type that occurred): 1 = masturbation;
2 = oral; 3 = anal. Percent agreements ranged from 81%
to 96%. Discrepancies were resolved by discussion.
Finally, Savin-Williams (1997)
collected data on subjects' age of puberty, age of first awareness of
sexual attractions to other males, and age at which they first labeled
their attractions "gay" or "homosexual." The latter
two variables, in conjunction with subjects' beginning age of ADSR
experiences, were used to evaluate claims that early sex with older
males causes homosexuality.
RESULTS
Psychological Adjustment
If ADSRs have adverse effects on the
adjustment of gay /bisexual males, it would be expected that, in
comparison with controls, ADSR subjects should have lower self-esteem
and greater difficulty in attaining a positive sexual identify (i.e.,
the age of achieving this milestone should be delayed).
In Sample 1, self-esteem scores were
not lower for ADSR subjects (M = 23.82) than for control subjects
(M = 23.46), t(37) = -.17, p > .10 (all tests
reported here are two-tailed), with effect size r = -.03
(positive effect sizes indicate better adjustment for controls; negative
effect sizes indicate better adjustment for ADSR subjects).
Attainment of a positive sexual
identity was not delayed for ADSR subjects (M = 18.00) compared
to controls (M = 18.35), t(23) = -.43, p > .10, r
= -.09. Assessment of this attribute commenced a third of the way
into the interviews; data are missing for nearly equal proportions of
ADSR (31% ) and control (33% ) subjects. Of those who were asked about
achieving a positive sexual identity, the proportion of ADSR subjects
(89% ) and control (85% ) subjects who had achieved this milestone did
not differ, z = -.28, p > .10, r = -.05. Table I
provides adjustment statistics for both samples.
Table I.
Self-Esteem and Age of Attainment of Positive Sexual Identity as a
Function of Having Experienced ADSR
Adjustment measure |
Sample 1 |
Sample 2 |
ADSR |
Controls |
ADSR |
Controls |
Rosenberg self-esteem
|
M |
23.82 |
23.46 |
21.00 |
21.96 |
SD |
5.47 |
6.24 |
4.74 |
5.25 |
n |
11 |
28 |
13 |
73 |
Positive sexual identity
|
M |
18.00 |
18.35 |
16.80 |
19.10 |
SD |
2.14 |
1.77 |
3.05 |
2.21 |
n |
8 |
17 |
10 |
62 |
% archieved |
89 |
85 |
77 |
85 |
In Sample 2, self-esteem scores were
not lower for ADSR-identified subjects (M = 21.00) than for
control subjects (M = 21.96), t(84) = .62, p >
.10, r = .07. Attainment of a positive sexual identity occurred
earlier rather than later for ADSR-identified subjects (M =
16.80) relative to controls (M = 19.10), t(70) = -2.89, p
< .01, r = -.33. The proportion of ADSR-identified
subjects (77%) and control subjects (85% ) achieving a positive sexual
identity did not differ, z = .72, p > .10, r =
.08.
Sample 1 results provide no evidence
for adverse effects of ADSR. Sample 2 results, although in need of
qualification because the control sample was likely to be impure, are
consistent with those of Sample 1, reinforcing the conclusion of no
evidence for adverse effects.
Combining results from the two
samples meta-analytically (Rosenthal, 1984) yielded a very small and
statistically non-significant effect size for self-esteem (r =
.04, N = 125,95% confidence interval = -.14 to +.21), a medium
and statistically significant effect size for age of positive sexual
identity (r = -.27, N = 97,95% confidence interval = -.45
to -.07), and a small and statistically non-significant effect size for
proportion having achieved a positive sexual identity (r = .05, N
= 115,95% confidence interval = -.14 to +.23). All of these results
are inconsistent with the traumagenic view (e.g., incest model) of ADSR,
particularly the negative effect size for age of achieving a positive
sexual identity, which is consistent instead with a beneficial effect.
The ADSR Experiences
The Appendix contains narratives from
all 26 ADSR subjects, which are ordered according to subjects' and
partners' ages. The narratives generally provide information on the
context in which the ADSRs occurred, the level of familiaity between the
partners, the frequency and duration of the sexual relationships, the
types of sex involved, subjects' reactions, and their level of consent.
Savin-Williams took more notes on first sexual or romantic experiences;
as such, these narratives contain more details.
Characteristics
The mean age at which subjects had
their first ADSR experience was 15.31 (SD = 1.67), with a range from 12
to 17. The mean age of their older partner was 28.62 (SD = 7.66), with a
range from 20 to 46. Thus, on average, there was a 13.31 (SD = 7.83)
year age difference between the boys and their older partners, with a
range from 5 to 30 years. Forty two percent of the cases involved
contacts with strangers; 35% involved contacts with acquaintances; and
23% involved friends (one of these involved an older brother). About two
thirds (68%) of the cases involved multiple sexual contacts.
Nearly half of the sexual relationships, (42%) lasted less than a month,
whereas a quarter (25%) lasted more than a year.
Of the 19 cases for which type of sex
could be identified, 21% involved masturbation as the most intense form,
42% involved oral sex, and 37% involved anal intercourse.
Almost all subjects (96% ) were aware
of their sexual attraction to males before their ADSR experience-mean
age of awareness was 7.92 (SD = 4.10), with a range from 3 to 17.
Ninety-six percent had reached puberty at an earlier I age (one reached
puberty in the same year as his ADSR experience) -- mean age of puberty
was 11.46 (SD = 1.21), with a range from 10 to 14. Three quarters (76%)
had already labeled their interests "homosexual" or
"gay" before the ADSR occurred (16% labeled their interests in
the same year as the ADSR) -- mean age of labeling was 12.52 (SD =
3.02), with a range from 7 to 18. These results regarding age of
awareness of attractions and labeling call into question the role of
ADSRs in causing same-sex interests.
Reactions
Subjects' mean reaction was positive (M
= 3.94, SD = 1.25), although individual reactions ranged from very
negative to very positive. Overall, reactions were as follows: 38.5%
very positive, 38.5% positive, 7.7% neutral/mixed, 3.8% negative, and
11.5% very negative. Combining categories and rounding, 77% were
positive, 8% were neutral, and 15% were negative.
Consent
Overall, subjects were mutually
consenting (M = 4.15, SD = .51); consent ranged from acquiescing
to encouraging. Thus, forced or coerced contact was not a factor in this
sample. To the contrary, nearly a quarter (23.1 %) encouraged the
contacts and about two-thirds (69.2%) mutually consented; 7.7%
acquiesced. Thus, 92% evidenced positive desire for the sexual
involvement.
Correlations
Table II presents correlations among
the various ADSR characteristics; statistical significance is based on
two-tailed tests. Doll et al. (1992) reported that greater age
difference was associated with more negative reactions at time of
interview in their sample of gay /bisexual men. In the current sample,
this association was not found, r(24) = .12, p >
.10. Moreover, younger boys did not react more negatively (or less
positively) than older ones, r(24) = -.23, p >
.10, and they were just as consenting as older boys, r(24) =
-.01, p > .10. Further, contrary to age difference posing a
problem for the boys, their willingness and interest in participating in
sexual relations increased as the difference in ages between them and
the men increased, r(24) = .39, p < .05, and as
the ages of their partners increased, r(24) = .40, p <
.05.
Positivity of reactions increased
with a greater degree of familiarity with the men, r(24) =
.56, p < .01, multiple as opposed to single sexual encounters,
r(23) = .60, p < .01, longer lasting sexual
relationships, r(22) = .52, p < .01, and greater
willingness and interest in participation, r(24) = .43, p
< .05. Greater familiarity was associated with more frequent
sexual encounters, r(23) = .47, p < .05, and
longer lasting sexual relationships, r(22) = .69, p <
.01. Younger boys tended to be more familiar or friendly with their
partners, r(24) = -.43, p < .05. Finally, two
one-way ANOVAs were performed to examine whether reactions and consent
were related to type of sex experienced. Results were non-sigificant in
both cases: F(2, 16) = .25, p > .10, and F(2,
16) = .36, p > .10, respectively.
Table II. Correlations Among ADSR
Characteristics
|
Men's age |
Diff |
Relat |
Freq |
Dur |
React |
Consent |
Boy's age |
.01 |
-.20 |
-.43* |
.01 |
-.22 |
-.23 |
-.01 |
Men's age |
|
.98** |
-.06 |
.18 |
.23 |
.07 |
.40* |
Age difference |
|
|
.03 |
.17 |
.27 |
.12 |
.39* |
Relationship |
|
|
|
.47* |
.69** |
.56** |
.30 |
Frequency |
|
|
|
|
.64** |
.60** |
.29 |
Duration |
|
|
|
|
|
.52** |
.36 |
Reaction |
|
|
|
|
|
|
.43* |
Note.
Boys' age = boys' ages when ADSR began;
men's age = men's ages when ADSR began;
age difference = difference between partners' ages;
relationship = familiarity between the partners;
frequency = single vs. multiple sexual contacts;
duration = length of sexual relations;
reaction ranges from very negative to very positive;
consent ranges from forced to encouraging (see text for exact
definitions).
Correlations based on N = 26, except for those involving
frequency or duration, which involve N = 25 and N = 24,
respectively.
* p < .05 two-tailed;
** p < .01 two-tailed.
DISCUSSION
Psychological Adjustment
In the current study, ADSRs between
gay or bisexual boys and men were examined. Contrary to conventional
assumptions, derived in part from the influential incest model, these
relations were not associated with damaged self -esteem or sexual
identity development. The self -esteem of subjects who experienced ADSRs
was as high as those who did not. ADSR subjects were not delayed in
achieving a positive sexual identity; to the contrary, in the two
samples combined, ADSR subjects actually reached this milestone earlier
than did control subjects.
Given Hershberger and D' Augelli's
research (Hershberger and D' Augelli, 1995) on middle-class college-aged
gay and bisexual men, which showed that self -esteem and comfort with
being gay are strong predictors of mental health, results of the current
study imply that ADSRs were not associated with psychological
maladjustment.
This finding is inconsistent with
conventional professional and lay views, which reflect the incest model,
but is consistent with empirical findings on willing boy-adult sex based
on college samples (Rind et at. , 1998). Given that willing ADSRs
predominated in the current sample and that the current sample was
composed mostly of college students, this consistency is not surprising.
Sexual Identity Development
Before gay liberation, professionals
frequently expressed concern that man- boy sex was pathogenic, because
they believed it was likely to cause boys to become homosexual (Rind,
1998). A number of child abuse researchers and other professionals
continue to express this concern (e.g., Bartholow et at., 1994;
Mendel, 1995; http://www.narth.com; Urquiza and Capra, 1990), despite
well-grounded empirical evidence to the contrary (e.g., Bell et at., 1981).
Data from the current study are
relevant to this continuing debate. Consistent with a growing literature
(see Savin-Williams, 1997, for a review), subjects in the current study
became aware of their sexual attraction to other males years before
puberty on average- in the case of ADSR subjects, 3.5 years before. All
but one ADSR subject became aware of these attractions prior to having
their first ADSR. Three quarters of these subjects labeled their
attractions as "gay" or "homosexual" before their
ADSR, whereas another 16% labeled their attractions at the same age of
their ADSR (leaving in doubt for these latter subjects which event
occurred first).
The timeline suggested by these
events is, for most of these subjects, as follows: becoming aware of
same-sex attractions, labeling these interests as gay, then experiencing
ADSRs. This timeline contradicts the seduction hypothesis.
Clinical findings of sexual confusion
and homophobia among gay and bisexual men who experienced ADSRs (e.g.,
Dimock, 1988; Myers, 1989) do not extend to the current sample. This is
evidenced not only by the positive sexual identity data already
discussed, but also by subjects' narratives. Only a few subjects showed
adverse reactions (see Appendix for Cases 9, 11, 16, and 19). Two of
these subjects explicitly commented that their ADSR made it difficult to
accept their homosexuality (Cases 11 and 16). Importantly, these cases
constituted a small minority. The vast majority of narratives provide no
evidence of harm to sexual identity formation. Contrary to stereotypes
of harm, Savin-Williams (1997) concluded from his interviews that many
of the ADSRs helped "the adolescent more readily identify as gay,
feel better being gay, and learn much about himself"
Reactions and Consent
The incest model offers the image of
a frightened child, powerless to resist, coerced into a traumatizing sex
act. This image fits some case studies presented in clinical research on
gay boys' ADSRs (e.g., Myers, 1989), but does not fit the typical ADSR
in the current sample. To be sure, several cases were quite negative
(Cases 9, 11, 16, and 19). In three of these cases, however, the
narratives indicate that the circumstances were important in
affecting subjects' reactions. One subject initially felt accomplishment
in having experienced the sex, but later felt the circumstances
cheapened the event (Case 11). Another felt the sex was unclean because
it was anonymous (Case 16), and the third one felt unclean about sex in
a cemetery with a stranger to whom he was not attracted (Case 19).
It was positive and very positive
reactions that predominated (77% of the cases ). These narratives are
reminiscent of those found in other nonclinical research on gay youths'
sexual experiences (e. g., Jay and Young, 1977; Spada, 1979) and in
cross-cultural research (Williams, 1996).
One 12-year-old said he
"practically had to force sex" on the man, which he thought
was great when if finally occurred (Case 1). Another 12-year-old thought
the sex was physically great, fell in love with the man, and continued
the relationship for 10 years (Case 2). A 13-year-old, who had a sexual
relationship with his adult brother, said he liked it and wanted to do
it again and again (Case 3). Another 13-year-old was glad to have
engaged in mutual masturbation with a man he met in a shopping mall, and
tried unsuccessfully to meet the man again for a repeat (Case 4). Still
another 13-year-old found the sex to be incredibly erotic, a tremendous
release, and very pleasurable (Case 5). A 14-year-old felt excitement,
love, and affection in his relationship (Case 7). A 16-year-old reacted
to his ADSR by asking himself, "Is this what it is? Is this what it
is? Do I like it? Do I like it?" He answered with, "Yes! Yes!
Yes! Yes!" (Case 14). Another 16-year-old described his ADSR as the
best sex he had ever had (Case 15).
This predominance of positive ADSRs
is strongly at odds with the image forwarded by most feminists, child
abuse professionals, and media commentators. The boys in these cases
were not frightened, powerless to resist, or coerced into traumatizing
sex acts. Instead, the vast majority either mutually consented to the
relations or actually initiated them. In contrast to the clinical and
clinic-based samples discussed previously, force and coercion played no
role in the current sample, the boys were not involved in ADSRs
before puberty, and incest was rare (just one case -- Case 3 was
brother-brother incest). These differences in coercion, childhood versus
adolescent contacts, and incest may reflect differences in socioeconomic
status and family stability, which were both more favorable In the
current sample.
Noteworthy is the finding that age
difference, the sine qua non of the power abuse perspective, was
not associated with type of reaction and was positively rather than
negatively, associated with level of consent. The boys were more willing
to be sexually involved as the difference in ages between them and the
men increased. Moreover, the younger boys (aged 12-14) did not react
more negatively than the older ones-to the contrary, they all reacted
positively. This contradicts the conventional wisdom that younger
participants would be vulnerable to negative outcomes because they are
too naive sexually. Contrary to this presumption of naiveté or
"innocence," however, almost every boy in the current sample
had already become aware of his sexual attractions to other males prior
to his ADSR. Additionally, these sexual attractions, whether felt by
boys who experienced ADSRs or not, often involved significantly older
males. As Savin-Williams (1997) noted
Those who monopolized their
attention were occasionally same-age boys, but were more often older
teenagers and adults-male teachers, coaches, cousins, or friends of
the family. Public male figures were also sources of fantasies --
Superman, Scott Baio, Duran Duran, John Ritter, Bobby Ewing, and Hulk
Hogan. Others turned pages in magazines and catalogs to find male
models in various stages of undress; especially popular were underwear
advertisements (p. 24).
Savin-Williams (1997) provided
several examples of these early age-discrepant attractions. One subject
remembered his kindergarten naps: "Dreams of naked men and curious
about them. Really wanting to look at them" (p. 21). Another
subject at age 7 shared a room one night with a 21-year-old athlete, who
was nude in his sleeping bag. The subject commented: "... I kept
wondering ... I just knew I wanted to get in with him ... I didn't sleep
the whole night" (p. 24 ). Still another remembered: "As a
child I knew I was attracted to males. I was caught ... looking at nude
photographs of men ...[I] enjoyed my keen curiosity to see male
bodies" (p. 26). Rather than seeing older males as a threat to
abuse them, these boys often regarded them with "excitement,
euphoria, mystery" (p. 24 ).
This favorable predisposition may
account for the receptivity, and hence generally positive reactions, to
the ADSRs that occurred in this sample. It also suggests that the
reports of positive ADSRs were generally valid, rather than artifacts of
psychological or social pressure to present their homosexual history in
a favorable light.
The Incest Model: A Procrustean
Bed
The discrepancy between findings in
the current study and expectations based on the incest model is so great
as to warrant further consideration.
Summit (1983) wrote an influential
paper based on clinical incest cases, in which he described the
"child sexual abuse accommodation syndrome." He cautioned that
his syndrome "should not be viewed as a procrustean bed which
defines and dictates a narrow perception of something as complex as
child sexual abuse" (p. 180). Despite this warning, in the very
next paragraph, even though his syndrome was built almost entirely on
cases of father-daughter incest, he asserted that "male victims are
at least as frequent, [and] just as helpless" (p. 180).
This sort of extrapolation has become
commonplace since the early 1980s. Sexual phenomena that have only
age-discrepancy in common with incest are reshaped in a narrow, rigid
manner to fit the demands of the incest model. Media commentators
conclude that willing sexual relations between adolescent boys and
unrelated men are invariably profoundly damaging (e.g., Philadelphia
Inquirer, September 13, 1984, p. 22A). Professionals reject or
distort data regarding these relations that are inconsistent with the
incest stereotype, reaching instead the obligatory conclusion of
pervasive harm (e.g., Bartholow et at., 1994; Masters et at., 1985).
A 1993 case in London, Ontario,
illustrates paradigmatically the procrustean influence of the incest
model when applied too broadly. The Canadian Broadcasting Corporation
(CBC) documented on its premier informational show IDEAS (1994,
1995, 1999) what it termed the biggest sex scandal in North America.
About 60 men sexually involved with adolescent boys were arrested in the
midst of a "moral, panic ... generated by the police, with the help
of therapists and social workers, and ... fueled by the media" (IDEAS,
1994, p. 29).
CBC interviews with the boys
indicated that they generally were gay or bisexual, were "sexually
active teenagers who were having sex for fun or for profit" (IDEAS,
1994, p. 31 ), engaged willingly, had reached Canada's age of
consent of 14 when the sex occurred, and were treated well by the men.
For example, one teen commented:
I knew what I was doing. ... I
wanted it. ... [I]t's not a recruitment thing, it's not that you 're
forced into it. ... [W]hen you're 14 and gay it's as natural to want
to be with a man as it is when you're 14 and straight and want to be
with a girl ... I was doing it when I was 14. I was picking up the
guys. It wasn't them picking me up. And you can't be a victim unless
you're forced into something. (IDEAS, 1995, pp. 55,56)
The teens' willing participation and
their predominantly positive perceptions of the experience are
completely consistent with the findings of the current study, as well as
the other nonclinical research reviewed previously. Nevertheless, as the
CBC series documented, the London media, social workers, and police
treated the affair following the dictates of the incest model, with
serious distortion and iatrogenic harm ensuing.
The media consistently and repeatedly
exaggerated and misrepresented the affair from the start, presenting it
as a child pornography ring victimizing children as young as eight, when
in fact almost none of the men knew each other, 95% of the cases did not
involve pornography, and teenagers were involved, not young children.
Social workers proceeded from the
premise that the relations were coerced and non-consenting -- even
though most boys were above the age of consent -- because of a
"power differential;" they also tended to believe that men and
boys get their "power needs" met through sex. The CBC series
documented further that the social workers involved in the cases, were
distressed that the boys did not see themselves as victims, and many had
a declared agenda to make the boys see themselves as victims. They wrote
"victim impact statements" for the courts, in which they
interpreted the boys' refusal to talk with them about the sex as a
traumatic reaction to the sex itself.
Finally, the CBC series
documented how the police, operating under the premise that the boys
were victims and were being "ruined" by the sex, used threats,
bribes, deception, and harassment to coerce them into providing state' s
evidence. Teens interviewed for the series recounted how the police
pressured them to claim in court that they felt victimized when in fact
they did not.
The CBC series was critical of the
actions taken by the three London institutions just discussed, pointing
out examples of harm imposed on the individuals brought "into a
system of interrogation and confession and squealing, a system of
punishment and therapy, humiliation and incarceration" (IDEAS, 1995,
p. 61).
The series presented an interview
with a gay spokesman, who argued that "it was the whole criminal
proceedings that caused them to feel victimized or caused damage to
their lives, not the sex trade" (IDEAS, 1995, p. 57).
Another London commentator opined
that the police and social workers should stop treating these teens as
if they were "damaged heterosexuals"; the president of a
Detroit group organized to protect homosexuals against violence and
discrimination added that "they're damaged now because of
heterosexuals, in this case the police" (IDEAS, 1995, p.
53). The producer of the series summed up the procrustean influence of
the incest model when applied to teenage males involved in willing
relations with unrelated adults:
... the modern and useful feminist
analysis of the reasons young women suffer in horrible incest cases --
that analysis has been inappropriately used in an attempt to
understand an entirely different set of circumstances. A blurring of
motives and psychological effects has taken place, which has created a
powerful and misleading narrative that produces neither justice nor
happiness. (IDEAS, 1999)
CONCLUDING REMARKS
Findings in the current study are
limited in a number of ways. The sample of gay and bisexual males was
mostly middle-class, college-educated, and White. Generalizations to
other populations cannot be safely made without further investgation.
The ADSRs all involved adolescents rather than preadolescents;
inferences to how preadolescents respond to such relationships cannot be
safely made without further study. The ADSRs were predominantly of a
willing nature; inferences to unwanted relations are thus unwarranted.
The control group in the second sample likely consisted of some subjects
who experienced ADSRs, rendering inferences about self-esteem and
positive sexual identity tentative in that sample. Consistency with the
findings in the first sample, however, suggests its value in assessing
adjustment. Finally, the mostly positive nature of these ADSRs cannot be
assumed to extend to those of heterosexual adolescent boys with men,
where reactions are more mixed, tending to be negative to neutral for
unexpected or casual encounters and neutral to positive for encounters
occurring within the context of a friendship (see Bauserman and Rind,
.1997, for a review).
These caveats aside, the current
findings are consistent with those of other nonclinical research in
demonstrating that adolescent boys' willing sexual experiences with
older persons are very poorly described by victimological models (i.e.,
rape and incest) that evolved in the early 1970s to describe women's and
girls' unwanted sexual experiences. Alternative models should be sought
that incorporate the consistent finding that adolescent boys generally
react neutrally or positively to ADSRs that are willingly engaged in and
involve adults of the gender consistent with the adolescent's sexual
orientation.
APPENDIX
Narratives of 26 Cases of Sexual
Relations Between Gay/Bisexual Adolescent Boys and Men
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